Tell me, said BrainMind, about the relationship between love and freedom.
The bird alone soaring, is a sign that it's free. as true of a freedom as could ever be
William was a wonderful partner in every single way. His wife Sheryl, had been overjoyed with every single aspect of their romantic and sexual relationship. Only now there was a problem. The time was right, they had both agreed, finally to have a baby. Therefore they began for the first time, to make love without birth control. This seemed to affect William in a very powerful way. Although for the most part, he could still perform as always, he was no longer able to ejaculate during intercourse. This was disturbing because he thought that it meant that he really didn't want to have a baby. He used Alpha to see if that was in fact the reason. William, who was a very auditory person, went into the Alpha state and asked himself the question, “Why don't I want to get Sheryl pregnant?” The answer came to him instantly in a return question, “Are you sure that you can”?
When William awoke he realized that he had never impregnated anyone before. He assumed that it was because he had always used birth control, but what if he was impotent? Part of him was afraid to find out. William and Sheryl both went to their doctors and discovered that they were both capable of creating a child. With that fear behind him, William's problem disappeared.
Perhaps the most special of all the wonderful ways of sharing the feeling of love, a sharing of the Life Force itself, is by expressing ourselves sexually. The intimacy of the experience of making love can open up whole new levels of communication between partners. With this interchange, the nature of the relationship always changes. A relationship is never the same again after sharing sexual intimacy. In most non-sexual interchanges we receive information primarily through only two of our senses; sight and hearing. Only in the act of making love are we able to communicate truly through smell, touch, and taste as well.
When loving is good in a relationship it is usually just one of many areas of focus. But when it is bad, it often becomes an all-consuming problem. Ideally, making love is an Alpha experience. Actually it can be two different Alpha experiences. You are in Alpha when you focus on what you or your partner are experiencing, the physical sensations of the body or the emotional experience of intimacy. You are also in Alpha when you let go and space out into your imagination and fantasy.
Imagination and fantasy are very important aspects of the human sexual experience. Not to be ignored is one of the basic functions, to create children. If the purpose of the coupling is procreation, then there is a whole deeper level of communication that happens in the experience. Humans experience sex as more than procreation, but instinctively it is always a factor in our sexual intercourse. Love in general and lovemaking in particular, provide us with an opportunity to learn about ourselves as we see ourselves reflected in the eyes of our lovers.
Each of us teaches our lovers how to love us, through the ways that we love ourselves. We can see our lovers as mirrors for ourselves and in this way better understand who we really are. Enhancing relationships is less a question of technique and more a question of rapport. Rapport is the connection, the heartfelt communication. Poor technique can be handled through practice if the desire is there. Poor rapport leads to uncomfortable feelings, and poor communication. Relax, tune in, and trust your intuition. Pay attention to your partner's gestures and body language. Let communication become more of a loving and learning experience. Be creative, be intuitive, and be open enough to listen to everything that your partner tells you, both in words and in gestures and movements. Romance, in all of it’s wondrous forms, can continue to grow through communication and experimentation.
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